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Cosmic Connections and 5 Must Haves in Any Healthy Relationship

Have you ever found yourself questioning your compatibility with another astrological sign?

Perhaps you've Googled, "Would a Scorpio and a Leo be good together?" Or maybe you've wondered how your Capricorn Sun aligns with your child, who is a Cancer Sun. It's natural to want to know about the dynamics of our relationships--will there be conflict or harmony?

Through the lens of astrology, chart compatibility, also known as "synastry," can show the intricate energies between two individuals--what comes easy and where there are difficulties. For example, a strong Mars aspect might indicate a passionate and dynamic relationship, while a challenging Saturn aspect could suggest a need for patience and commitment.

A synastry reading can highlight the underlying energies at play--what comes easy and where there are difficulties.

When I did my first synastry reading (you can book yours here) for my husband and me, it was clear that our biggest challenge was how we communicate. We both had different styles and needs, which often led to misunderstandings. However, the reading also revealed that we experience the most growth through travel, adventure, and spirituality. This insight helped us navigate some tough times and reconnect in old and new ways, including homing in on where to focus our time, whether through self-development courses, one-on-one bonding, weekend getaways, and more.

But synastry readings aren't limited to romantic partnerships. They can be a powerful tool for examining family dynamics, friendships, and even professional collaborations. They offer practical ways to nurture what's already in harmony and work through existing currents with grace and wisdom, empowering you to take control of your relationships.

In my experience, my best relationships have pushed me out of my comfort zone and forced me to take a good hard look at myself. Some of those relationships ended abruptly, others required a break, and others I continue to work through. But through them all, I've changed and evolved and learned that having a healthy relationship, be it with my kids, spouse, or friends, requires:

  1. Honest communication, where each person is seen, heard, and made to feel safe, so that they can express themselves authentically. This means actively listening to one another and holding space for each person to share their thoughts and feelings.

  2. Show compassion and understanding before offering advice. We each have unique perspectives based on lived experiences, so showing concern and kindness is vital in helping others feel you're on their side.

  3. Having healthy boundaries, where each person can openly share their needs and limits, followed by mutual respect to adhere to those boundaries.

  4. Creating rituals for connection and spending quality time together to deepen emotional bonds either through impromptu get-togethers or regularly planned dates.

  5. Prioritizing self-care, where each person can engage in individual activities that bring them joy and fulfillment.  

What lessons have you learned through your relationships? Let us know in the comments below.

If you're looking to learn more about your close relationships and the dynamics at play, book a Synastry Reading today.

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